Date Night Outfit: Bodycon Red Dress & Black Pumps


Hi it’s been really crazy in the world, the tragic deaths of Alston Sterling, Philandro Castile, and the four Dallas police officers has made it difficult to blog. I don’t typically use my blog to discuss issues like this but when it affects the way you view and live your life, it’s hard to stay silent. I spent the past week watching the news non stop and engaging on my other social media platforms about the tragic loss of so many lives due to guns and police brutality.

Honestly by the end of the week I felt like a zombie. Everything was so overwhelming and draining. Racism continues to rear it’s ugly head and Satan has definitely been enjoying the way we are all tearing each other apart over skin color. Personally I believe that there is only one race, the “human race.” We all bleed red and have the same basic needs, it’s so sickening to see us murder each other without any regard for that human beings worth and purpose in life.



I believe that Black Lives Matter, which should not be interpreted as only black lives matter! I believe that any human life is valuable, whether they are black, white, Asian, Hispanic, gay, straight, law enforcement, etc. I think the minute we think that one life is more valuable than another, we start this race war all over again. I hate it, It makes my heart hurt to see how we treat each other. It’s not just a white or black thing, it’s about doing the right thing. We are ALL God’s children.

Now that I’ve said what’s been on my mind…lets talk about some fun stuff. The stuff I enjoy because it wasn’t too long ago that my life was in jeopardy and at the time my race & bank account really didn’t matter. I’m here to enjoy my life, I want to make every single day count. This is my first outfit post since all the madness and I was happy to get dressed and head out for the evening.

I put in these braids about a week ago and I’m still loving the way they look. I’ve managed to keep them as neat as possible and I have gotten creative with all types of ways to style braids. I’ll probably keep them in for another week and then I’m not sure what I’ll be doing next. I’m trying not to cut my afro because I need the length to try a few other styles that I think will fit my personality and style.



I purchased this bodycon dress from Forever 21 in early spring and never wore it. I couldn’t find it for a while and when I did find it in the back of the closet, I couldn’t decide on where I would go in it. It’s a perfect date night dress, I love that it’s sexy and fitted. I think it can be worn with different types of shoes. I chose these pumps that I got on sale at Target but I have several other shoes and sandals that would look great as well. They have these tiny cut out patterns on the front that make the shoe different. I had to find an excuse to purchase them because I didn’t need another black pump in my collection… *wink.

Please enjoy the pictures and don’t forget to leave some feedback for me. I would love to hear your opinion of my box braids!










Dress: Forever 21 see similar here

Shoes: Target buy it here

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Celebrate Your Curves: Graphic T & Bikini Bottom



It takes a whole lot of nerve to rock a bikini when your curvy. Once you have kids, gain weight, and life happens, it just feels like a bikini is for girls in there teens or early 20’s…as if I’m that old…LOL! I’m pear shaped, which means that I carry most of my weight on the bottom. It isn’t all that bad, except choosing the right bikini can be challenging.

I typically go for wider bands on the side and a slightly higher waist. I fell in love with the tropical print but couldn’t find a top to go with it. I’m not into showing my stomach  because I have stretch marks from having my son. I usually only wear high waisted swimsuits or one piece swimsuits but wanted to try something different. I’m a fan of graphic T-shirts. I thought the message on this T-shirt said it all ” Thick Thighs Save Lives.” I’m all for celebrating women with flaws. Even the skinniest women have flaws, it’s a part of life, just except it.




T-shirt: Find it here

Bikini Bottom: Find it here



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